Entry #14

" Are you the Right One? "

This world is full of people who are always finding the Right One, pero kahit minsan kaya naisip na nilang itanong sa sarili nila "Am I the Right One"?

Noon, ako rin lagi kong iniisip saan ko kaya makikita yung the Right One, nagkakilala na kaya kami? Kaibigan ko ba siya? Naging kaklase? Nakasalubong sa mall? Magkakasundo kaya kami? Ano itsura niya? And other typical questions. Pero later on I realize na I should not focus on finding the Right One. I should focus on being the Right One.

Ang natutunan ko,  mahalin mo ang sarili mo. Continue to develop yourself. Ayusin mo yung mga dapat ayusin. Gawin mo ang lahat ng mga bagay na magpapasaya sa iyo. Manuod ka ng sine na magisa, magtravel ka ng magisa, Spend time with yourself.  Kilalanin mo yung sarili mo, ano yung mga kalakasan at kahinaan mo bilang tao, ano ang mga nakakapagpasaya sa iyo. Ang pagiging single ay maikling panahon lang sa buhay ng isang tao. It's true, temporary lang kasi yan, spend your time in this season wisely. Wag ka magmadali.

Next, Mahalin mo yung First Love mo, si God. Punuin mo yung sarili mo ng pagmamahal galing sa iyo at sa Diyos. Spend time with God sa season mo na to, know Him deeper. Develop your relationship with Him . Know how God loves you unconditionally. And when the right time comes, pag alam na ni God na ready ka na, the right one will come along. By that time, sobra sobra na yung pagmamahal na meron ka, at kaya mo ng magmahal ng iba. You are now mature enough to handle the relationship. Yung waiting season mo gawin mong season of being the right one.

We always read about stuffs that talks about finding the Right One. But have you ever thought that your Right One is also looking for "the Right One". How can you be his/her right one if you spend almost all of your time thinking how to find that person instead of being that person?

Enjoy the season that you are in and use it to develop yourself. Because being the right one can lead you to finding the right one.

Entry #13

When you get tired, should you be quitting?

 But what if, you were just a step away from your miracle or breakthrough but then you've decided to quit?



Life will teach us lessons, lessons that will really push us to our limits. There will be a lot of times na maiisip mo na sumuko nalang. Darating yung mga panahon na mapapagod ka sa sitwasyon, sa tao. Pero wag kang sumuko kasi sa pagsuko mo, parang sinuko mo din yung mga bagay na pinaglaban mo simula nung una.  Kapag gusto mo na sumuko, isipin mo bakit mo nga ba yan sinimulan? Bakit ka lumaban? Malayo na narating mo, susukuan mo pa ba?

Yes, tao lang tayo napapagod. Pero pwede ka naman magpahinga, wag kang tumigil. Wag kang sumuko..


Kaya mo yan. Kakayanin mo yan.. May dahilan bakit mo pinagdadaanan yan.


It will be worth it. 👊

2 Chronicles 15:7

But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded

#700Days

Entry #12

Today,

I just want you to know that, You are capable of anything that you put your heart and mind into. You are strong, you are a child of God. Your dreams may scare you, but know that whatever dreams or visions that the Lord have placed inside your heart, He will fulfill them. He won't fail you. You may never understand His plans but Trust Him and Have Faith!

Entry #11

So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air.

1 Corinthians 9:26 ESV

Make plans, Go for a goal. Wag ka lang Go with the flow. You should have a direction. The Lord can't help you if you do not have plans and goals. Yes He will direct your path, but if you do not have goals, to where will He direct you? Be firm, focus on your goals. Maganda ang taong, mabagal pero may patutunguhan kaysa sa taong nakikipagunahan pero walang kapupuntahan.





Today, I am more than blessed. Thank you Lord for everything. Indeed what a great start for my birth month. Exactly 7 days from today.  Lord continue to bless me and the work of my hands, so I could continually be a blessing to other people. Continue Lord to bless everyone whom you are using to bless me ..





Ps.  Life get's more meaningful when you enjoy every minute of it. Fill your every waking day with happiness by learning to enjoy every circumstances that comes your way, look on the positive side always.

Entry #10

1 Corinthians 7:23-24

You were bought at a price; do not become slaves of human beings. Brothers and sisters, each person, as responsible to God, should remain in the situation they were in when God called them.

You were bought at a price, so whatever the world is trying to instill in your mind, "that you are not worth it, no one believes in you, you are alone and other negative thoughts", do not believe them, because the King of Kings bought you at a price.

You were called for a purpose. Do not get distracted by the things that this world is using for you to be sidetracked of what you were called for. We should remain in God's original design when He created us. Whatever problems the world throws at your way, remember that God is with you, God will never fail you. He called you for a purpose, whatever He promises to happen in your life, it will, we just have to remain in Him.










Beginnings are always the hardest, but you just have to start today or you may not have tomorrow. 👊

Entry#9 Unspoken Words

Hi.
I don' t even know where to start, what to say. Should I start on how we met? But that would take us forever.

So let us start on what we are. We are the best of friends,  we've known each other since forever. We were together almost all our lives. You are like a twin brother that I never had, because I don't need to speak for you to know that something is wrong, you can read me like an open book. You are my dear diary, you know my secrets, my problems, my success and setbacks. You've  witnessed all the important occassions in my life and likewise I also have with yours. You know what, we can even answer a slam book for each other because we are like that, we know each other too well.

Everyone expects us to end up with each other, our families, our circle of friends.  But we don't hold the future, we can never dictate what will happen. It is still in the hands of God. They see us like some cliché love story, but I want you to know that, I don't want you to pursue me just because you are pressured from the people around us. I don't want you to pursue me just because you are used to having me around. I don't want you to pursue me just because you're infatuated with me. I hope that if ever you will pursue me it is at your own will, at your own decision and with the right reasons.

We've talked about this, I know your priorities know that I understand them. I want you to know that I fully support that you want to enjoy your singleness. Yes, there are times that i feel frustrations, I cry and overthink our situations but that's normal right? I realize that it is important to enjoy our singleness because it is temporary and the next level will be forever. Regardless, know that I want you to enjoy life to the fullest, go out, make new friends, get to know other people and experience more adventures. Because i believe that love works that way, it does not limit the person, it helps the person to expand his/her horizons. When the time comes, I hope you could proudly say that you've enjoyed, no regrets and you're ready for a new season in your life.

I always pray to God that if we are meant to be we will be. and if not I know He has something better in store for us. If the times comes, and it is His will for us to be together, i hope then that we can fully commit because we are ready and complete. But if we are not meant to be together know that I always pray for your happiness. Yes, it will hurt but it is okay, we will be okay. I know God will give the love we deserve.

For now, let us grow individually, mature spiritually and emotionally, get deeper in God. Let us love God and ourselves more. Let us enjoy our singleness and live life to the fullest, make more memories and enjoy the ups and downs of life. Let us continue being friends, get to know each other more while waiting patiently on what the future holds for us

Entry#8 Kaya ko palang mag-isa

"No man is an island" sabi nga ng isang sikat na kasabihan. Masyado yata tayong naniwala dito at talagang ating pinanindigan.

Siguro bahagi talaga ng ating pagiging tao na masanay na parating may kasama. Mga kaibigan natin na parati nating kasama sa galaan, pamilya natin na kasabay natin sa hapagkainan at ang ating mga minamahal na kasama natin kahit saan. Ngunit nakalimutan yata natin na tayo ay nilikha na isang buong tao, na hindi natin kailangan ng iba upang tayo ay makumpleto.

Hindi naman masamang masanay tayo na may kasama ngunit minsan pati kasiyahan natin ay dinepende na natin sa iba.

Ang kasiyahan mo ay nakadepende hindi kung sa kung sino, ito ay nakadepende lamang sa iyo. Kahit iwanan ka niya, hindi totoo na hindi mo kayang mabuhay ng wala siya, hindi totoo na hindi ka na sasaya. Oo nga at may karapatan kang masaktan, maging malungkot ngunit nasa iyo pa rin ang desisyon kung paano ka magiging masaya ulit. Ikaw ay nilikha na nga ng kumpleto di mo siya kailangan upang ikaw ay mabuo. Siya ay ibinigay lang sayo para maging kasama, hindi para siya ang maging buhay mo at gagawin mo siyang mundo.

Naranasan ko rin kung paano idepende ang buhay ko sa iba, yung kapag hindi mo siya nakakausap o nakikita ay malungkot ka, parang hindi buo ang araw mo, yung kung ano-ano na ang pumapasok sa isipan mo, hindi ka na masaya kasi wala siya. Nasanay akong gawin siyang dahilan ng kasiyahan ko na pag nawala siya wala na rin yung saya ko. Ngunit dumating na siguro ako sa dulo, napagod na ako at doon ko naisip na hindi ko kailangan ng ibang tao para sumaya.

Kaya ikaw na kagaya ko, nawa maisip mo rin na ikaw, at ikaw lang ay sapat na para sumaya. Ang kasiyahan ay hindi mo mahahanap, ito ay desisyon.  Iniwanan ka man niya, di ka man niya itext at ichat, di mo man siya makita, okay lang na malungkot ka, umiyak ka ngunit pagkatapos ay piliin mong maging masaya.

Matapang ka, Maganda ka, Gwapo ka, karapatan mong maging masaya at nawa masabi mo rin na "Kaya ko pa lang mag-isa"..