Entry #14

" Are you the Right One? "

This world is full of people who are always finding the Right One, pero kahit minsan kaya naisip na nilang itanong sa sarili nila "Am I the Right One"?

Noon, ako rin lagi kong iniisip saan ko kaya makikita yung the Right One, nagkakilala na kaya kami? Kaibigan ko ba siya? Naging kaklase? Nakasalubong sa mall? Magkakasundo kaya kami? Ano itsura niya? And other typical questions. Pero later on I realize na I should not focus on finding the Right One. I should focus on being the Right One.

Ang natutunan ko,  mahalin mo ang sarili mo. Continue to develop yourself. Ayusin mo yung mga dapat ayusin. Gawin mo ang lahat ng mga bagay na magpapasaya sa iyo. Manuod ka ng sine na magisa, magtravel ka ng magisa, Spend time with yourself.  Kilalanin mo yung sarili mo, ano yung mga kalakasan at kahinaan mo bilang tao, ano ang mga nakakapagpasaya sa iyo. Ang pagiging single ay maikling panahon lang sa buhay ng isang tao. It's true, temporary lang kasi yan, spend your time in this season wisely. Wag ka magmadali.

Next, Mahalin mo yung First Love mo, si God. Punuin mo yung sarili mo ng pagmamahal galing sa iyo at sa Diyos. Spend time with God sa season mo na to, know Him deeper. Develop your relationship with Him . Know how God loves you unconditionally. And when the right time comes, pag alam na ni God na ready ka na, the right one will come along. By that time, sobra sobra na yung pagmamahal na meron ka, at kaya mo ng magmahal ng iba. You are now mature enough to handle the relationship. Yung waiting season mo gawin mong season of being the right one.

We always read about stuffs that talks about finding the Right One. But have you ever thought that your Right One is also looking for "the Right One". How can you be his/her right one if you spend almost all of your time thinking how to find that person instead of being that person?

Enjoy the season that you are in and use it to develop yourself. Because being the right one can lead you to finding the right one.