Today has been a long day,
But i still want to share my thoughts. 😇😇
Ang pagmamahal, di laging masaya, kadalasan umiintindi ka. Di parating ok, minsan may di mapagkakasunduan. What i realized is, darating yung time na di lang ikaw muna yung priority, and that is ok. You should understand na life doesn't revolve with just the two of you. May mga ibang responsibilities kayo na kailangan gawin. Not all the time, the attention you're looking for is there. Not all the time, sweetness will be there. Because a lot of times, mapapagod kayo, sa buhay, sa isa't isa. Maraming pagkakataon na gugustuhin niyo sumuko, kasi sa pagod. Sa responsibilities na hinhingi ng commitment na minsan mahirap imeet, pero ang pagsuko ay decision. Decision mo kung isusuko mo ba yung tao ng dahil lang sa napagod ka na. Hanggang saan mo ba kakayaning magtiis? Kapag wala na ba yung saya aalis ka na? Kapag wala na ba yung spark, aayaw ka na?
Your reaction to the situation is solely dependent on you. You should always remember na kung dahilan mo lang kasi hindi ka masaya, sayo lang yun. Kasi ang happiness mo magdedepende lang sayo. That is why sobrang importante na before entering a relationship you are molded by God, punong puno ka ng pagmamahal galing sa Diyos, you know how to love unconditionally. How to love when the tides get rough, how to love without asking for anything in return. Ang pagmamahal mo sa isang tao hindi nababase sa kung ano ang naibibigay niya sayo, sa attention, sa sweetness, sa love. You love a person, dahil mahal mo siya at bunga siya ng panalangin mo. You love the person regardless of the situation.
So when you are faced in situations in your relationship that it feels like you're about to give up, always remember why you prayed to God for that person. Remember, that person is the answer to your crying prayers to God. 😇😇
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